Short Lesson in Undersdanting
Written and translated
from Hebrew by Moriya.
Edited by C.C.
Saint-Clair and published under Moriya’s patronage.
Copyright by Moriya,
2009
Let's begin with a Sufi
story:
Once upon a time there
was a king who enjoyed the company of his trusted friend, a Sufi.
One day the king said:
"Look, I love and trust you as much as I love and trust my soul. Please,”
he said, looking into the man’s eyes, "I would like to give you a present,
so ask whatever you wish, even to the half of my kingdom."
The Sufi replied,
"My king, I do not wish for anything."
"Please, ask
whatever you want and it'll be granted."
The Sufi said softly,
"I thank you, but I honestly do not wish for more than I already have.”
Both men stood their
ground until finally the wise man turned and said: "There is a question I
would like to ask?"
"But of course,”
replied the king.
"Imagine that you
have become separated from your men and that you are lost in the desert. There
is not one living soul around. High in the sky, the sun is hot on your head.
There are no bushes under which to find shelter.
Your tongue feels as dry
and dusty as the hair on your camel’s tail.
Then, an apparition
appears in front of you and proffers a tumbler of cool water towards you. You
reach for it but before releasing the tumbler, the apparition proposes a deal.
A tumbler of cool water
for half of your kingdom. My King, would you agree to the deal?"
"Of course, I
would!" exclaimed the King.
"So,"
continued the wise man, "why would I need something that is valued as much
as a tumbler of water?"
So, what is the message
of this story?
The message is that
according to how much, at any given moment, we value any one aspect of anything
over another, we attach an arbitrary emotional value to this aspect while
failing to accept the whole.
Look at it this way: if
we were in dire straits in a desert, lost and left for dead, most of us would,
indeed, be willing to make a deal - any deal - with anyone holding a symbolic
cool glass of water to us.
Interestingly, if lost
in an arctic blizzard and about to die from hypothermia, what we would most
greedily accept from a rescuer would not be a tumbler of cool water but a
tumbler of brandy though, clearly, whilst in the dry desert the tumbler of
brandy would fail to quench our thirst and might hasten our departure from this
earth.
However, we are talking
about the same tumbler of cool water - unchanged in its properties - whether it
is offered in the context of the desert or the context of a frozen landscape.
Dependant on our need –
be it real or imagined - the worth we attach to that tumbler of water is
totally arbitrary and entirely of our choosing.
Equally, when we donate
to charity clothes that we no longer want, the persons accepting these clothes
will attach a value to them where, for us, there was no longer any.
Why, these men and women
might even wear this shirt, that skirt, that tie, proudly on Shabbath, at the
next Bar Mitzvah they attend, to their next job interview or to their next
birthday party.
It can be said that one
person’s trash is another one’s treasure.
When we value one item
over another, be it an object or a human being, we create separation – in doing
so, we create disagreement and conflict because things are inseparable in their
essence.
Any attempt to attach
greater value to one item over another causes an inner friction that expresses
itself through an outer conflict, i.e. in violent behavior, be it against
others or against the self. This conflict can also express itself in the form
of illness or result in an *accident*.
Every single conflict
recorded in history has sprung from a
value attached to
worldly material goods as well as to ideas, notions, emotions and desires. In
doing so, we separate them from the whole.
The action/reaction of
inner conflict/outer conflict always repeats itself simply because there can
never be a firm agreement between people about the worth of any specific thing
or that of any specific individual they value, and the prize they are willing
to pay for them.
Some will spend a
fortune on a car. Others will spend a fortune on a painting, on a diamond, on a
stamp collection, on a rug or even on another human being. Some prefer not to
pay anything for these objects that they, too, value. They prefer to *steal*
them while others would not give a thousand shekels to possess any such thing
because, for whatever reason, they do not value such objects.
For example, when mere
objects, locations and people gain religious significance, they also gain an
added value – that of holiness.
Attachment to symbolic
holiness leads to conflicts between individuals, wars of religions and war
between nations.
The real essence of life
- the physicality, unity of everything – is inseparable from the whole. No
single aspect of it can be altered in any way. The value we attach to anything
that has ever been created - from objects to selected individuals, dead or
alive - is only as arbitrary as the value attached to the tumbler of water in
the opening fable.
Any conflict is the
proof that we, humans, are attempting to separate what is whole and inseparable
into parts, while it is the natural state of all - conceived as whole - to
realign itself back into a preordained wholeness.
The stronger the
attachment to any element separated from its whole - be it in the name of a
god, idealism, patriotism, authoritarianism or liberty - the stronger the
eventual counter-reaction will be.
It needs to be
understood that all-out battles on any level are always born out of a
single-minded personal inner conflict.
All events, all objects
are naturally neutral – they just are.
They do not carry any
intrinsic values. They are neither good nor bad. They merely exist but we,
ego-personas, arbitrarily decide what is to be valued or rejected, what is good
and what is bad, according to societal trends, our collective emotional
insecurities and the use we make of objects, thoughts and doctrines – personal
and public ones alike.
Every act intended to
‘push’, to manipulate, in a direction
predetermined by the
self, always causes a blow-out at the other end before it settles back into its
original wholeness.
Love, on the other hand,
is a pure and beautiful emotion – but only as long as we accept our loved ones
as they are without trying to mold them to suit our desires and our
insecurities.
When we peacefully
accept our circumstances such as they are, the spontaneous flow of cosmic love
energy remains constant, for it replenishes itself spontaneously. The more we
share love with others, the more this cosmic energy widens and spreads.
Needless to say, we are
not talking here about the simplistic, feel good Hippie flower-power and the
New Age propensity for hugging and verbally stating acceptance and love.
Neither are we talking about convincing ourselves that we are “doing” love
through the simplistic repetition of mantras.
When we demand that
love, such a frail and beautiful emotion, should be expressed in any particular
way in order to satisfy our ego – selfish and insecure by nature – the counter
reaction from the loved one is an annoyance that over time often turns into
downright hatred, which often leads to the cessation of the spontaneous flow of
love, if not to physical separation.
It is this negative
charge that is transmuted into a karmic ‘blow to the head’ of the perpetrator
via yet another inner/outer conflict.
What is a loss, an
‘accident’, bad luck, an act of violence or an illness, if not the
materialization of the negative charge?
Take for example the
case of an extreme fundamentalist who turned to epicurianism. That sort of
erratic imbalanced behavior would create such an energetic kink that the flow
of cosmic energy would be severely constricted. This would set the stage for
yet another inner/outer conflict.
The first reality is
that we are souls – souls disguised in our incarnated bodies.
The second reality is
that all souls are love and, as such, our true purpose in this lifetime is to
love one another unconditionally.
A third reality is that
the source of all conflict and enmity is always rooted in our starvation for
love and in our inability to satiate it.
We, human beings, are a
combination of a body and a soul. When only the body needs are sated, the
lonely starvation of our soul deepens accordingly and this is where, as a
civilization, we err in thinking that satisfying the body, the persona, with
more money at the bank, a promotion, more frequent and better sex, more
entertainment, a more stimulating life, more exotic food - more and more of
what is within material and within our reach - would solve the problem.
Instead of eventually
feeling satisfied with what we have, we indulge a constant craving for more -
as there is always more ‘out there’ that the media are trying to sell us. The
more we indulge our base needs, the more our soul’s loneliness and starvation
deepen. In time, the persona becomes miserable, emotionally unhealthy and
ultimately physically sick.
The main problem of our
civilization is that we have never
understood the
connecting lines that link our actions in the material world to our spiritual
deficit and to our emotional stress and physical ailments.
When the world came to
be, all of creation – minerals, animals, plants, human beings, stars, suns,
etc. – was born from primeval matter. The ‘phenomena’ world in which we live
is, therefore, a complete world in which nothing can be altered.
Wood cannot become iron.
Fish cannot become flora. Each creation has been given to humankind in its
complete form. Therefore, there is no possibility of ever changing anything in
our outer physical world.
Air pollution,
greenhouse gases, pollution of the rivers and the seas, the hole in the ozone
layer, the melting of the polar caps and toxic waste, just as the side effects
of ‘enhanced’ food are the result of scientific ‘advancement’. Scientists take
complete matter and alter its properties to invent an improved version of the
original pattern.
The world could be seen
as a huge puzzle in which all pieces are interlocking and each fulfills a
function without which the puzzle cannot be whole.
So, although there is a
general consensus that the contribution of an individual positioned at the
bottom rung of society is minimal, this is a grave mistake.
Without such persons in
our midst, the nature of the puzzle would be altered. Their absence, if removed
from the equation, would cause a severe imbalance that would affect the whole
of society.
It has to be understood
that everyone alive here and now is a valid and integral part of our society.
Again, we are souls in
disguise and the ‘phenomenal’ world in which we live has set us up with all the
opportunities we need to reveal our true selves to ourselves by unveiling the
mask of the persona - which is the only way to experience inseparability and
our personal merging with the infinite wholeness.
Let's take the case of a
rabbit. A rabbit cannot speak. The best she can do is growl a little because of
an inborn inability to shape sounds into words. If we tried to teach a rabbit
to speak, even after many years of perseverance, the rabbit’s throat would
still not allow her to do more than growl. The rabbit is a complete creature
that is finite.
Let’s now return to
human beings. When we tell ourselves that we have learned ‘something new’,
reality is that we have not truly learnt anything new at all. What we have
succeeded in doing is remembering some of what we already knew.
As human beings, we are
not complete, fixed creatures like the rabbit. We are able to ‘learn’ by
internalizing something that, a minute ago, was totally unknown to us. When we
“remember”, we are accessing prior knowledge. The ability to learn and to
understand means that it is inborn within us and that it is unlimited.
Soul speaks to us
through symbols. Understanding these symbols is a must. When we see the world
through our eyes, we see pictures formed by a myriad of symbols which our brain
analyzes through words.
As long as we stay
within the picture's framework, we experience living in peaceful harmony with
our selves and with each other.
However, the moment we
interpret what we see with words, always attributing a higher or a lesser value
to one aspect or another, we create separation. Separation fosters friction and
friction leads to another conflict.
Soul is Love, Truth and
Faith. It is therefore in her nature to desire a merging with infinite and
eternal wholeness. The ego-persona, a mere tool, is a mechanical system
intended to serve the soul by being a channel between her and the body, so that
our soul can look at the world through eyes that see union and unconditional
Love.
Each one of us is always
dealt the cards we need in order to succeed in this difficult mission but all
our difficulties in life spring from our refusal to accept our soul as our
master and from our resistance to amend what needs to be amended. They are
compounded by our doggedness to flow in a direction that is opposite to that of
Life's flow – the unilateral direction of separation.
When a soul is
reincarnated as a newborn within a specific family, it is the signal for the
parents that the time has come for them to overcome all petty personal
conflicts to clear the channel between their persona and their inner self - not
to be hypnotized by their own persona’s needs and fears - not react
mechanically to every one of
life’s prickly moments.
The arrival of a newborn
soul in their lives is the signal that the time has come for these adults to
learn about their true selves by observing their own reactions while refraining
from interfering.
The arrival of a newborn
is the signal to surrender to what-is, to accept holistically and to give
unconditionally. The more the parents will be able to give, particularly when
things become messy and difficult, the more their acceptance will grow, the
more their energy will be renewed and the more they will evolve and rise up the
ladder of spirituality.




