that is the most difficult thing to understand if you still have the personality. You are not bounded by any sense to live. When you  find yourself eternally and unified with all that exists you lost any fear to be "not as you have to". You  are flowing  on the waves of flaming and unconditional love. You feel the matter as  orgasm of the Source. And you can choose anything you want to do. Then change it and go on with it. There are no boundaries for anyone. But you are able to understand it by feeling it, when you live yourself as unborn consciousness.