Here you'll discover twenty questions to help you build a strong foundation for your open relationship. In just a few minutes your brain can download decades worth of poly wisdom. It's been said that questions are the answer... so ask yourself this. What boundaries can support my healthy open relationships? Find out now!
Looking for something to be upset about? Why?
- By Oriah Mirza
- Published 08/3/2012
Have you ever caught yourself looking for something to be mad at? Or disappointed in? Or unhappy with? Have you ever woke up happy, but then immediately, you went into your head? The rest of the day was spent trying to get out of your head? Have you ever caught these moments? These moments are the most crucial, tiniest moments where you allow yourself to get swept away by your mind, and if you have programmed yourself to be unhappy, sad, lonely, worrisome or angry-you will look to get your 'fix'. Everyday, a new thing to be unhappy about. Because imagine if you did not have these things to be bothered about? Life would be perfect. Happy. Easy. Flow. Relaxing and get it all done. But, that would be too good for you right? You cant have it too good, you never saw anyone else around you have that...why should you? It's not reality, right? Well, your reality is whatever reality you want. You are trying to control your environment all the time anyway, aren't you? So, why can't you control your mind instead and create a life that is more 'you'. And the more 'you' is peaceful and happy isn't it? Catch yourself in these moments. Catch yourself going from happy and content and then you 'start' to look for something that is not what you like, what you want, or how it 'should be'...something to upset about. Catch yourself robbing yourself from joy. Causing others something to deal with in you, instead of creating an environment of joy. Is it really worth getting upset over? Isn't it more fruitful to be happy and content and find your excitement and thrill in being curious and in awe? Instead of getting your 'fix' in your usual judgement and upsets? Now, you don't have to ever be upset again...unless you want to because you like it. : )
I don't mean like hearing voices but more like thinking about things and questioning yourself? Or going over an important decision that you have to make again and again? This kind of conversation with yourself will not help you to solve your problems or make good decisions and is not productive or helpful. What is going on is that your hidden sub-conscious mind is and you conscious mind are having an argument. This is caused by negative programing that we have all been subjected to in one form or another. It could have been as innocent as your parents saying no over all the years of your childhood or as sinister as having suffered childhood abuse or even abuse as an adult. No matter what form it took, over the years it was written into your subconscious mind as negative reinforcement and programming.
Forgiveness is something we all want to receive and would like to be able to give. However, this can be a challenge for us. The ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho’oponopono has been embraced throughout the world. This article discusses the background of Ho’ponopono, why and how it helps to release the past and heal old hurts and angers so you can live in a more harmonious and loving manner.
The greatest love of all, sang George Benson, is learning to love yourself. To love yourself is to truly accept yourself as you are. But how many of us really do accept ourselves as we are? In this article, Glenn identifies the barriers to self-love, gives tips on how to break through them, shares practical steps to positively achieve self-love and reveals why perhaps George and others have called it the "greatest love".
- By sheryl heart
- Published 03/16/2012
by Abigail WainwrightThe quantum flame relationship and alchemy of it in totality beginning with you and experiencing it in each and every stage in its true non-utilitarian fashion for the quantum that can truly be experienced by you and another. But First it begins with you. You are but the key to your own portal of divine.
Relationships present the most intense opportunity for spiritual growth and self-evolvement. Whether life long or temporary, each relationship makes the space for two people to share in an intimate love experience. If you find yourself with the desire to share in that experience I hope these tips guide you to that discovery.